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As mentioned in Cosmopolitan magazine ("Cosmo")

Can you love more than one person at a time? So can we! (PMM) is about finding others who believe in ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, equality, freedom, choice, love, sexuality, sincerity, hope, trust, happiness, and especially Polyamory. For more information on different forms of Polyamory, check out our glossary page.

Do you identify with any of the following?
Poly Polyamorous Ethical Non-Monogamist Ethical Swinger Polyamorist Prefer not to self identify but feel that monogamy is too limiting

Do you believe in any of the following?
Poly Polyamory Ethical Non-Monogamy Ethical Swinging Open Honest Relationships Meaningful Multi-Partner Relationships Swinging with Emotional Connections Everyone should have to right to love who they want as long as all partners are consenting legal adults

If you identify or believe in any of these concepts - You are in the right place! has been serving the Poly & Ethical Non-Monogamous community for over a decade. With an incredible "organic" membership base, we offer a network of potential friends, dates, and partners all with similar goals; Ethical Non-Monogamy.

What we mean by "organic" is that we do not buy membership lists, nor do we "share" membership lists with any other non-poly site. People who are here have registered to be here.

Are you ready to meet others just like yourself? Register here to create a free profile.

If you choose to register with PMM, you will become a "Standard Member" and be able to search our membership database, view who has looked at your profile, save favorites, send internal PMM 'pokes', and check out our active forums.

"Premium Membership" affords you all of the items mentioned as well as full access to Instant Messenger, Single/Two-player games to break the ice, live chatrooms, and internal PMM mail to other members.

For a complete description of levels of membership, please see Compare Plans.

Again, welcome to; the perfect place to find your poly mate(s).

Please note that all copy written for this home pages was created and drafted by members of TeamPMM and covered by the DMCA Policy.

Polyamory is, simply put, the capacity to love many. brings together all kinds of people from around the world in a web community setting.

Not only do we provide a tasteful adult environment; bringing people together for love, friendship, learning, support, and camaraderie... we are also a resource for learning about Polyamory in its many forms and nuances. The practice of Polyamory can be as unique as each of us are. PMM supports all styles, all people.

At PMM, we welcome:

  • Androgynous
  • Asexual
  • Bisexual
  • Bigender
  • Genderqueer
  • Heterosexual
  • Homosexual
  • Intergender
  • Pansexual
  • Polysexual
  • Queer
  • Straight
  • Third Gender
  • Transgender
  • Poly-friendly/curious
  • Or Any other Combination
PolyMatchMaker News

Title: Some PMM truths - are all the websites you use like this?
By TeamPMM on Sunday October 26, 2014 truths

1. PMM does not sell your information
2. PMM does not offer your demographic information to anyone, including the media
3. PMM does not allow advertising without screening first
4. PMM uses custom-built software and not an off-the-shelf cookie-cutter template
5. PMM is searchable only when one becomes a member
6. PMM respects the privacy of its members
7. PMM has been serving its community for nearly 15 years
8. PMM does not lease or buy membership data. This means that every profile on this site was made by someone joining this site. In addition, and VERY important, PMM does not use the database of other sites mixed with its own which would lead to skewing membership numbers.
9. PMM does not discriminate dependent on any ethical non-monogamy facet as long as the desire is legal and between consenting adults over the age of 18 years.
10. PMM has no affiliation with any other entities meaning that the purpose of this site is to provide community for the membership on this site.
11. PMM has no political or activist motivation. This means, as #10 states, the purpose of this site is to provide community for the membership and not towards any other organization.
12. PMM does not use copy or text from other websites or written word without expressed permission and detailed within the copy. All general copy written for the site was written by a member of TeamPMM.

Abbie Masse

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